28 March, 2013

Happy Birthday, my dearest hubby!

Dear hubby:
Today is your birthday, so sorry that I didn't prepare much for you in advance, but don't worry, I'll give you a nice dinner. Before that, I would like to write a letter to you to show my appreciation. It's really so lucky to marry you, I always feel blessed to be your wife. You're such a nice, kind and smart person, always think about others, put me and our small daughter as your main concern, I am grateful. Although sometimes your "concern" would be a bit annoying, but I know that because you love us so much, you can't see us to be hurt or feeling sad.

I always say we are a great team, and it's quite true. No matter what challenge is ahead us, we support each other, face the challenge together, and then slowly solve it. Although it may take some time to get the solution, but we'll eventually overcome them and move on. Recently we argue a lot because of taking care of our small daughter, I don't like it and also feel so sorry, but because your love and kind heart, we can be better after the arguing. I think in the future we would still argue for many things, but with love and understanding, we would communicate well.

I want to say thank you to you, my dearest hubby, you really light up my life, although it's still not easy, but with you I have no fears. It's a great honor to spend my whole life with you. Please always remember that I love you so much.


30 October, 2012

After quite a while...

It's not easy to maintain two blogs at same time, especially if one is written in your native language, but the other one is not. Since the last post, I thought I could have more free time to spend on my English blog, however in between I decided to change my job position and had to learn new skills, which took me a lot of time and I had to learn it as quickly as possible.

And the second thing that kept me away from writing on my English blog is a special condition: I am pregnant. The first 3 months felt like I was stuck in a never ending nausea every day. It was too awful for me and I don't think that I could go through that again. But I must thank my dearest hubby, he has showed his great support for me, has comforted me and tried to help me as best as possible, even when his job was quite stressful and demanding.

This was taken in Tatung university. It reminds me of the days my pregnancy still wasn't that obvious.

Before I was pregnant, I still had no idea about what it means being pregnant. It was like a mystery for me, although I am a woman, there will always be things that you couldn't feel or understand until you experience them by yourself, and pregnancy is one of those things. I thought I would be lucky and wouldn't have any uncomfortable feelings like others, because I exercised at least twice a week, and always ate healthy, I was proud of my healthy life style. However, it doesn't matter, if you live healthy, it only depends on your body features and structure. What symptoms you would have is also unknown. The only thing you can do is to bear the uncomfortable moments, move on and search things that would make you feel better, that's all. After this experience, I respect pregnant women much more, because they really try hard to keep strong and balance their lives.

Now my pregnancy is past the half time, I am close to 6 months and I’ll keep on going strong in order to welcome a healthy and cute baby.

I don't know how often I could write a post here, but I won't give up on this English blog, I want it to remain an open door for me to communicate with the English blogosphere.

29 December, 2011

I am back here!

I didn't check and write my English blog for over one year, ha. Well, because I put most of my time on maintaining my Chinese blog, and my English was progressing very slowly, thus after a while, I almost forgot I still had this blog. But I didn't have many readers here, so here would be only a place for me to practice my English writing.

From last post to this recent post, my life changed a lot during this year. At the end of 2011, when I look back, I feel so appreciated to myself and my dearest partner-MKL. We overcame a lot of things, from he decided to move to Taiwan, plan to stay here, tried to get used to the foods and culture, got a job and work in a high pressure working system, and married me with a high expectation from my parents. Everything for him is not easy but even tougher than we thought. I do admire my husband, he faces such great challenges, but is still strong to handle and manage them, never give up, he is absolutely a hero in my heart and life. He keeps his words to fight for me in a foreign country, to take care of me like a real knight, I appreciate what he has done for me. Therefore, I also try my best to treat him well, make he feel like home here.

MKL officially moved to Taiwan at Feb, and then we registered our marriage at April, at the same month he started to work, and after few months later, we held our wedding party at Sep. Time flies, in one year we managed and achieved several important things in our lives, we finally succeeded and made it.

I know there would be more challenges wait for us, but I know we are a great team, we can find our way to solve and move on. To make our lives better is the main faith. I just realized that any possibility would come true one day, only if you really want to make it.

At this moment, a new year is coming, we would like to share our happiness with all of you, and wish you will be luck and happy together.

I wish you best of luck!